Hello,

I’ve been self hosting Nextcloud for the last half a year, and my family has been using Nextcloud Talk to communicate. However, as cool it is overall, we suffer from a lot of missed messages. I’ve been keeping an eye on (and contributing to) the Android app, but even with all the updates, it seems like they can’t quite figure out the issue with notifications not appearing consistently. My wife is fed up, so I’m looking for alternatives.

It seems like Matrix is the next logical one to try, but the Android apps have pretty poor reviews. A lot of the self hosted messengers also seem to be more like Slack replacements, rather than focused on family & friend use.

Has anyone had a good experience with a self hosted messenger for family use?

Thanks!

  • GreenKnight23@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    9 hours ago

    Signal had privacy problems?? Maybe using Google play notifications?

    I’m not a fan of having my personal identity tied to it. last I checked signal still requires a phone number.

    looks like I might have been wrong originally, but it looks like signal actually does fwd secrecy as well as post-quantum encryption.

    keep in mind I’m replacing telegram. I have put off moving for some years but I have the itch to replace it now. simplex also has the closest feature-pairity to telegram out of all the messengers on that list.

    also I’m building and hosting this for very nontechnical users. if they heard tor they’d think it was the “darknet”.

    my goal is

    • keep it secure
    • keep it private
    • keep it simple