+1 for njalla, they are privacy minded

Caddy makes it dead simple to do exactly what you described.

Lemmy: Less vitriolic to AI-assisted software than Reddit

Is that true? Lemmy users mostly hate AI in my experience

This seems a bit extreme to me. I have services exposed to the Internet, with reverse proxy and auth.

Just to go against the grain here, fuck Cloudflare. They are too big a part of the internet already. I would never use them.

I can’t see it

This is my POV. It already works perfectly, is prepaid, and is accessible to my nontechnical users. Switching would be a major pain for a worse experience.

Also, Plexamp.

Someday in the future no doubt Plex will enshittify for lifetime users such that it will justify a change, but that hasn’t happened.